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I wake up at 4:00am to get ready for work and leave at 4:45am each day

I arrive at work at 5:15 and start my day at 5:30

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I then work till 5:30 and get home around 6:00.

I am just so tired, not use to this schedule.

My body was use- of the opposite: being up all night and sleeping during the day.

I find myself, bumping into things, spilling things, losing things, can’t type or write or blog or read – all  of which I so love to do.

Any solutions?

I can understand if a kid or even a teenager wants to go on and on about “topics” of importance to “them.”  I really don’t think that is a bad thing, as it is a way of communication.

But…what if its a co worker who you “have to deal with day in and out?”

From what I read on the internet is to basically give them a blank stare, and do not nod, or go uha, or anything.  Just stare blankly.  Do you recommend this?

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Jackie Paulson

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Hello, my name is Jackie Paulson.  I am a 44-year-old single mother born on 12-12-1966 with the zodiac sign of Sagittarius.  The one thing I find true for me that stands out in the traits of the zodiac sign is  “Knowledge is power.”  I love to read and learn from others as a life Long knowledge and truthseeker.

The reason why I blog is to mainly network and share knowledge with others.  My passion is reading and research so this helps me to share what I know.  I can read 167 pages of any book in two hours with complete comprehension of what I have read.  I was not always a good reader and that all changed once I got married.  The reason it changed is because I wanted to “fix” my husband at that time.  He was a drinker and so was I.  Of course I did not think I had a problem I thought he did.  What I did was to get my hands on every self-help book I could get my hands on from stores. Eventually I was invited to a AA meeting with a friend and took her upon the offer. I went there to “fix” my husband’s drinking problem.  What I found out was that I could not “fix” anyone but “myself.”  Low and behold, I changed and quit drinking and my husband did not.  The changes I made involved learning to not be a codependent and live my life Married but “detached” from my husband and his drinking. I got married on 2-22-92 and got divorced on 3-26-95 and I had our baby on 2-14-94.  Yes, a short marriage to an alcoholic, a divorce with a 1-year-old which led me to being a single mother working three Jobs just to survive.  My ex husband was unfaithful in our marriage and led to our divorce.  I was born and raised Catholic and divorce was not an option unless he broke one of the Ten Commandments and since he did I was free to divorce and remarry, which I have not.  I received “sole custody” of our daughter and raised her the best way I knew how and now she is going to be 17 on Valentine’s Day 2011.  Yes, I am a Proud Mother! Okay, so to make a long story short, I have been in an ongoing battle to get child support from my ex husband and he has been remarried and has a ten-year old son.  Here it is 2011 and my ex owes me over 94thousand dollars.  You wonder how come so much?  He is Delinquent and when that happens there is penalties and interest that built up over the years.  Have I gotten any of that money yet, No!  What is crazy I show “dead beat dads” like him can live “knowing” they do not support the child they helped to create into this world.  It takes “two” to have a child and it take’s “two” to support a child.  I did my part by raising her the best I could, working many jobs to make ends meet, and taking on all the responsibility that a single parent does, and then my ex did not see what I had to do just to survive. So, if he did care he would have paid his child support, “actions speak louder than words.”

About Me Continued:

I grew up in a strict Irish Catholic family of seven kids and two adults.  I even attended boarding schools in high school.  Interesting enough my real mother died from over drinking and my father is a drinker to this day.  My father owned a restaurant and later a bar and liquor store.  It is obvious that my dysfunctional background helped me to want to start drinking when I was eighteen years old.  Since I was born in 1966, I was able to travel over the border to Wisconsinand drink.  Drinking at age eighteen started my love of drinking, attention, showing off, challenges and romances.  Then I got married on 2-22-1992 to a man I fell in love with.  He was a great looking man (Billy Ray Cyrus look-alike).  He was a drinker.  We enjoyed our new married life, new friends and all of the drinking parties.  I joined a volleyball team at our local bar and loved the sport and the drinking. With all of this said I have to admit I was never pulled over by the police and never got a DUI.  Oh am I thankful for these years later.  Anyhow, after two years of a wonderful marriage we decided to have a child.  Once I became pregnant I wanted the best for our child, so I quit drinking, my husband did not.  At first I didn’t have a problem with this but after the child was born I changed.  I decided that I wanted what was best for our child, a girl, and since my mom died when I was five and she was thirty-three, I vowed not to drink or tolerate it in front of our child, which included the/my husband.  I decided to attend AA meetings to make sure I kept sober with a child.  I never thought I would learn so much when I went there.  I went to “get my husband to quit drinking.”  What I learned is that I had to work on me and not him.  What a Revelation! As time passed I did not allow my husband to have any alcohol in our home.  We started to fight a lot, about money, communication problems, and then he would just not come home from work until really late.  He decided to drink after work with his drinking buddies and just ignore his wife and child.  Oh how I was devastated and learned that the meetings were helping me to make my own decisions and to not focus on my husband and his drinking but on my life.  As I started to detach from his drinking and find new found things to do that did not involve drinking, my husband ended up coming home from work when our child was one years old asking for a divorce.  He said, “I fell out of love with you.”  As this came to a big surprise and shock to me, I had to stay strong because of our child.  Needless to say, the meetings helped me to stay strong, not drink and become a divorced single mother working three jobs.  I received “sole custody” of our girl and to this day do not drink.  She is now seventeen years old and I am forty-four.  The best thing I ever did was attend meetings to get the proper help I needed in order to get my life in order to be a strong single mother and raise our girl by myself working three jobs.  I am proud of her and I am proud of me.  I know my real mom is proud that I did such a wonderful job raising her and that I did not follow in the drinking path of destruction by so many in our family.

Today I wish to share with you what has gone on in my life since 2007.   As boring of a story this may be it will tell you my own struggles and the courage I had to do all that I endured.  If this post is too long I do apologize as I write from the thoughts rolling around in my head.

2007- For 12 Years I worked in my own Barber Shop and five of those 12 I actually owned and operated it.  Yes, a female Barber is my forte’ and that does not mean I cannot do women’s hair, I just don’t prefer it.  My family and friends tell me how good I am at it but after 20 years of doing it I got burnt out. So what did I do?

IN MAY of 2007 I closed the shop and went to college to become a Paralegal.  See, I got married in 1992 and had my baby girl in 1994 and now she is 17 and I am 45.  So, I raised my daughter as a single mom as her day decided he “fell out of love” with me when she was 1.5.  So, he had a baby with another woman as I found out, he left her and now is married again to another (SUCKER).  He has been for 12 years and has another son about 11 or 12.  Oh who cares!  So, after I raised my daughter and got sick of cutting hair industry I went to college to become a Paralegal.  Yes, I worked three jobs and raised my daughter and that is another story for another day.  But, I moved in and out of my apartment and in and out of another apt by 2010…at that point…lost my job doing Security and got evicted for nonpayment and had nowhere to go.

So, I used tough love and moved my daughter into my ex husbands brother and wife’s house so she could be raised in a better environment and finish High School where I originally raised her with her friends.  I had to do it because when I got my five day notice to evict, I had to donate all of my belongings and stuff that I could not fit into a storage unit and that was 40 years worth of furnishings and things that I treasured.  I had nowhere to go and 300.00.  I put my life in a storage unit and packed clothes and went to a town far away and got a motel…(roach motel).  More like spiders and centipedes!!

Mind you I had two cats that a friend took for me and later I got them and paid him for taking them for a couple of months.  They are my life and treasures.  They sure missed their momma!  It was horrible.

Then after three months and three days I was able to afford an (roach apartment) nearby and it was 200.00 cheaper!  With little work and 600.00 rent I made it work for two years. In those two years, I moved out of the motel, moved into the apt, then they remodeled it and I had to move in and out of that one into another one…then six months later I am in a HOUSE, only because I rent from my sister.  It is a basement but I am living.  If you want to call it that.   I have to say I am a “moving expert.”  I can also say the stress has me in a bit of depression I am being treated for.

Today I am blessed with a new job and new beginnings for a Security Company that I pray the Lord give me a promotion as I deserve it.

So, I did hair: got burnt out

THEN got a Degree in 2009 as a Paralegal and although I love it – no work to be found.

THEN now I stay with Security because I love it and get the respect I so deserve.  Although, the rumors say we do nothing, if they only knew!  I blow them off because, I know what I know and they are just jealous that they don’t have the job I have doing Security.  Here are the coursed I have taken:

TRAINING/EDUCATION:

Associates of Applied Science Paralegal

May 2009: Kaplan University, Chicago Illinois

Certifications: Dean’s List and President’s List all semesters

JOB-RELATED CERTIFICATES AND LICENSES:

Illinois Paralegal Association

State of Illinois License Notary

New Law Certified for Real Estate

JOB-RELATED SKILLS:

Contracts, Bankruptcy, Probate

Interpersonal Communications

Business Law

Family Law, Evidence

Civil Litigation I & II

Criminal Justice

Legal Writing

Legal Research

Software Applications in Microsoft Office Suite

Microsoft Word
Microsoft Excel
Microsoft Outlook

JOB-RELATED CERTIFICATES AND LICENSES:

I took all of these courses:

CPR and AED First Aid and Certified 2011

1. Booldborn Pathogens
2. Cultural Diversity
3. Cultural Sensitivity
4. Effective Communication
5. Gang awareness and training
6. Intro to shopping center business
7. Liability and Legal Aspects
8. Observation and documentation
9. Organized retail Crime
10. Outstanding customer service
11. Patrol Techniques
12. Public relations
13. Radio Procedures
14. Report writing
15. Segway training
16. Sexual Harassment
17. Use of Force
18. Work Place Violence
19. How to handcuff patrons
20. Learned lock down
21. Ten Codes
22. Other codes
23. Safety

• Report suspicious activities and watch for criminal acts or rule infractions at or near assigned post(s) which may be a threat to the property, client or employees at the site.
• Report all incidents, accidents, or medical emergencies as required. Respond to emergencies, such as medical and bomb threats; and to alarms, such as fire and intrusion by following emergency response proceedings.
• Monitor and authorize entrance and departure of employees, visitors, and other persons to guard against theft and maintain security of premises.
• Write reports of daily activities and irregularities such as equipment or property damage, theft, presence of unauthorized persons, or unusual occurrences.
• Answer alarms and investigate disturbances.
• Circulate among visitors, patrons, or employees to preserve order and protect property.
• Patrol industrial or commercial premises to prevent and detect signs of intrusion and ensure security of doors, windows, and gates.
• Escort or drive motor vehicle to transport individuals to specified locations or to provide personal protection.
• Operate detecting devices to screen individuals and prevent passage of prohibited articles into restricted areas.
• Answer telephone calls to take messages, answer questions, and provide information during non-business hours or when switchboard is closed.
• Warn persons of rule infractions or violations, and verbally evict violators from premises.

Jackie Paulson (editor/book reviewer)

If you have questions or comments feel free to contact me @jackiepaulson8@gmail.com

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I thought how fun is this, answer the below questions with your handwriting and post it…. Here is mine….

1. What is your name?
2. Blog URL?
3. Write: The quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog.
4. Favorite quote?
5. Favorite song? (at the moment)
6. Favorite band/musician/singer? (at the moment)
7. Say anything you want
8. Tag 3-5 bloggers

My handwriting

I am a Christian and today I prayed for a salad and for money.  I did receive both by the grace of God.  I was not working so these “little things” made my day.  Its when we have “nothing” that we appreciate “something.”  I feel like Jesus fed the 5000 with just one loaf of bread.  I feel like His ways are my ways.  Ask, knock and receive when you have faith and Believe. 

I cannot tell you how many times I have wanted to give up blogging.  I feel it is such a waste of time sometimes.  I am one of those gals that likes to accomplish things to make me feel productive.  It’s like when I paint a room, I take everything out, protect with tape, and then spread on the new paint.   When I am done it looks so fresh and clean and smells so new.  If the room was out of sorts before and then I put back the things in order I feel refreshed and renewed.  Have you ever felt that way?

Well, I don’t always paint with my words or find ways to get others to comment or follow my blog, but I sure wish I knew how other seem to do it.  Today I went to a site and I was amazed at the comments and followers especially for the topic: Chinese Horoscopes.

I also learned how to add a tweet button to any document from a fellow blogger.

I don’t know how many of you use Stumble_Upon but this is a great site.  It showed this diagram:

Yes About when we were kids and LEGO‘s.  Do you remember them?  I sure do! I would re-write the chart like:

1.  Build things with or without instructions: or write with what you know and let the rest go.

2.  Build creatively: or write being who you are and add your own creativity.

3.  Finding just that one small lego to complete the project you built: or finding just the words to keep the readers attention.

4.  Stepping on the Lego’s which made you scream: or writing and then when you are mad walk away until you want to finish.

How was that for Creativity?  Comments are welcome ♥

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